I'm not sure if this is one of the Dr.s that you've seen, but I had my last son with Dr. DeLong. This was the only time I've delivered in Lancaster and I really liked him. I respected him right away when he didn't comment on how many children I've had or encourage me in any way to have or not have more. He said he'd give me his honest medical opinion, but that was all, and even suggested I could try for a girl next year!

I felt like I could spend 5 min or 1/2 hour in his office and when I had concerns he'd look me straight in the eye and answer them honestly but confidently - as though he knew it was a serious question and he was going to be completely honest with me, but he also had it under control and I was going to be fine.
Anyway, that is one suggestion for you. I hope it helps.
Oh - and congratulations!!